More detailed information about me, and how I work as an escort
In order to spare myself some time answering all the questions often asked in emails, I’ve made my FAQs rather extensive, and I’ve parted them into 3 categories:
Category 1 contains more relevant details about me and how I work.Category 2 gives information and links to hotels and restaurants in Copenhagen, as well as links to other escorts in Copenhagen and in Sweden.
Category 3 deals with less relevant details about me and how I work, that still might be of interest for less experienced clients.
Here is an index over the questions, please scroll further down to see the answers:
Category 1
1:1) What do you expect a serious email to contain?1:2) Why are you not available in Malmö or southern Sweden?
1:3) Why can’t I reach you directly on phone?
1:4) What kind of sex do you engage in?
1:5) Do you offer dominance and role games?
1:6) How can I best satisfy you sexually?
1:7) Are you bisexual, can one hire you as a woman, or as a couple?
Category 2
2:1) Can you recommend some good hotels in Copenhagen?2:2) Can you recommend some good restaurants in Copenhagen?
2:3) Can you recommend other escorts in Copenhagen?
2:4) Can you recommend other escorts in Sweden?
Category 3
3:1) Are your rates negotiable?3:2) Do you give discounts to regular clients?
3:3) If you now really like what you do – why don’t you date for free, or why aren’t your rates less expensive?
3:4) Can I see you for a lunch or a cup of coffee, before I decide whether I want to hire you or not?
3:5) Why don’t you offer any 1-hour service, can’t you do an exception just for me here?
3:6) If I would grow tired of you after only 1 hour, do I still have to pay for your minimum of 2 hours?
3:7) Why can’t I get to know your real identity, unless you know me very well?
3:8) Why can’t I see you in your home?
3:9) Why don’t you offer unprotected fellatio?
3:10) I would like you to travel to me, but how can I trust you to really show up, in case I pay you in advance?
3:11) Can I take photos of you, or film you, during our date? Or can I buy used underwear and sex toys from you?
3:12) Have you really written all the texts on this website by yourself?
3:13) Do you really look like you do on your pictures?
3:14) Are you really independent? What are your affiliates for doing this website and managing your enterprise?
3:15) Do you give interviews to journalists, researchers, students or curious civilian persons?
3:16) Can one just become a friend of yours?
Category 1
1:1) What do you expect a serious email to contain?I want a sincere email to be well written, and contain suggestions for a time and a place to meet. I also want to know how long a date you are considering, and what you would like to do during the date (like if we are to have a dinner, or if you have some special sexual desires).
Emails not containing suggestions about a time and a place to meet, usually prove not to be sincerely intended, and not to lead anywhere. The same goes for emails only carrying a “wish to make contact”, or only a phone number.
I nowadays sort my emails after some kind of reverted “benefit of the doubt” – so when in doubt, I don’t bother to answer. This is because the amount of incoming emails is increasing for each month, while my availability slowly is decreasing, since I collect more and more regular clients.
1:2) Why can’t I reach you directly on phone?
Because there is an abundance of individuals, in particular Swedes, that have got nothing better to do than calling in order to make fun of me, harass me, and ask obscene questions. There are also many that like to call only to talk, or in order to ask about obvious matters already written here, because they don’t bother to read through this website.
Since I only have time for 2-3 new clients per month a public phone would give me un-proportionally lot of administration, which wouldn’t lead to anything.
1:3) Why are you not available in Malmö or southern Sweden?
Malmö and southern Sweden provide bad conditions for me. One problem is that there is such a scarcity of escort girls in the region of Malmö, that I risk getting the wrong kinds of bookings here. Individuals not being able to afford me, but still booking me, in the hope of being able to bargain my rates then I show up (I have been into some threatening situations in Malmö, with men that neither wanted to pay, nor allow me to leave again).
In case these persons would have been in Copenhagen, they would will all likelihood have hired a cheaper escort than me from the start on. But if they are in Malmö, either at home due to comfort, or in a hotel room paid for them there by their company, I risk them to book me, despite that they aren’t the right kind of clients for me.
Copenhagen is then a more secure market for me, the huge amount of escort girls, on all price levels, makes my slim niche upscale escorting natural. The clients booking me in Copenhagen tend to all be in agreement with my way of working, and appreciate it.
See FAQ 2:4 for recommendations to other escorts in Sweden and Malmö.
1:4) What kind of sex do you engage in?
I do actually find it rather tasteless to write explicit sexual details here on my website, and it also breaks the custom for how the websites of upper class escorts are done. But since I after all am located in the open-minded Scandinavia, and receive many emails about these details, I have decided to give it some public space.
What I most like is loving forms of soft sex. I have a certain kind of “skin hunger”, I love long foreplays, where I can ride on the nice hormones produced by soft touches along my skin and slow kisses along my neck and lower back.
I have a nice finger tip feeling for the erogenous zones of my partners, and it gives me a great kick to see my partner take pleasure in what I do for him, and respond to my touches. I kiss with open mind, provided that you have a nice breath and don’t smoke or use snus (Swedish powder tobacco).
I’m good at fellatio, love to let it take quite some time, and teasingly combine it with stimulating the sensitive parts on my partner’s scrotum, as well as his nipples. I have a particular fascination for men’s testicles, a little of the same fascination that many men have for women’s breasts, and I love to toy with, and kiss, these tender body parts.
I always use a condom for fellatio, I like to lick upwards on the shaft, but I do make sure not to get in contact with the pre-ejaculative fluids or the glans (since the moisture here can contain bacteria like chlamydia or gonorrhea).
I’m also skilled at stimulating the prostate with an inserted finger in the rear opening on my partner (always with a condom on my finger and some saliva or lubrication for comfort). For many men this can give a very intense kick, especially then combined with fellatio. In particularly for men suffering some kind of erection or ejaculatory problems, this can produce a great increase of sensations, and improve the possibility for achieving orgasm.
For intercourse I have developed a special riding technique, there I sit squatting with my hands next to my feet, and partly transfer my weight onto my underarms (the elbows are inserted under my thighs, enabling my legs to press inwards, and thereby gain support on my arms, as well as transfer weight over to them).
I can gain quite some force and speed in this position, and also angle my pelvis, so I can get my inner g-spot nicely stimulated while moving up and down over the penis. For men suffering week erection, this also enables me to get a good grip on them, and to adjust my movements, so I can keep them within me while I move.
I also practise anal sex, though with some limitation for how long time per occasion. (If you are interested in this, I want you to tell me about it in advance, so I can prepare here at home with some salt water enemas, and we won’t risk getting any unsavoury mishaps).
As afterplay I’m happy to massage you, I did attend a massage course in the summer of 2006, and really do like the relaxed and natural contact one get from giving massage to another person.
1:5) Do you offer dominance and role games?
I’m no professional dominatrix, and I don’t have any thorough experience with the various subcultures for BDSM that there is. But I do like to practise the softer and more sensual forms of loving dominance, furthermost bondage, on my partners. What turns me on here is the feeling of my partner yielding and devoting himself to me, and that I’m in control of him. I have among other things a 20-meter long bondage rope in nylon, which works excellent for fixations also in rather sterile hotel rooms (hand cuffs don’t really work on modern cube shaped hotel beds). To in this fashion firmly tie a man down, blind fold him, and have him completely in my power, is something I find very enticing.
I like the fantasy of being in control of my partner, and to be the active partner in bed. If my partner responds positively on this, I also find it exciting to combine tender touches and kisses with some pain, like squeezing his nipples and eventually tie up, and spank, his testicles a little. I find it very erotic to combine the latter thing with fellatio, and drive the sensations to a peak, with the combined pleasure and pain.
I do however not enjoy afflicting my partner pure pain, or only dominating him with no sex. Humiliation, or pure punishment, are also not my areas of interest, neither is play with urine or faeces. I prefer it to be more playful and erotic, than harsh and pornographic.
I have a certain fascination for fetish outfits, and have collected some lack and latex, as well as some piquant uniforms and outfits. But more than advanced role games, I prefer it simple. To dress up a little, and then play more through intimacy and touch, than through distanced and advanced verbal games.
I’m not submissive towards my partner. I do get a lot of requests on this, due to my young and innocent looks, but unfortunately – this doesn’t turn me on at all. I prefer to be the active and dominant partner in bed.
Outside of the actual bed play, I prefer us to be on the same level and relate to each other as equals.
1:6) How can I best satisfy you sexually?
For me the most important is the communication, as well as the anticipation and excitement in the foreplay, where the desire and the attraction builds up. Since I myself masturbate each or every other day, the thing about getting an orgasm is no big deal for me. It’s something I can do for myself, with a dildo and my fingers, whenever I want to. What satisfies me most during the sexual act is actually to see my partner enjoy the pleasure I give to him or her.
But just like I myself enjoy seeing my partner take pleasure in what I do for him, I very well understand that my orgasm is very important to my bed partners. In case my partner wants to perform cunnilingus on me, he/she is very welcome to do so (provided he has a god oral hygiene). I don’t demand this to be done with protection, but have “vaginal-cover-slips” for the ones desiring such.
I usually come rather easily the first time, then I need a pause, of at least 10 minutes, from further stimulation on my clitoris, since it goes a bit sore from the orgasm. Then I can usually climax a second time, about 15 minutes after the first orgasm. But the second time is never as good, or as spontaneous, as the first time. It usually takes that I focus more on it, or help myself with fingers and dildo, in order to manage it. Sometimes I can only come once, especially if I’ve been drinking more than 2 glasses of wine during the evening.
I cannot climax more than twice, with less than that I’ve had some hours rest, and then start up having sex anew. I don’t like partners trying to push me into coming more than twice, this only feels highly uncomfortable and forced.
I also find the tradition of “ladies first” a bit annoying. Immediately after I have come I loose pretty much of my sexual arousal, so to achieve orgasm very early during the foreplay, is something I find rather boring. Like one, while eating a nice dinner, would go full already on the starter, and then not be able to enjoy the main course and dessert fully.
What I enjoy most with sex is actually a good foreplay and to have intercourse while I still am in the first stadium of intense arousal, before I’ve discharged most of my sexual energy in my first orgasm.
I usually don’t fake orgasms, or make myself artificial in bed. Since I’m offering longer and more personal dates, it’s important for me to be able to work in line with my own sexuality, and not against it. (My escorting has actually come to be my sex life.)
As said, alcohol is also no big hit for me sexually, especially sweeter wines, pure liquor, or champagne tend give me a blood sugar drop, which makes me numb and tired.
1:7) Are you bisexual, can one hire you as a woman, or as a couple?
Yes, I’m genuinely bisexual and am happy to also date women. I have some private experiences with women, as well as with threesomes.
I have furthermost experiences with female clients born in the 1940ies to 1960ies, that due to social conventions never has dared to come out as lesbians, but instead have spent their lives in for them sexually non-giving relationships, or marriages, to men. I do by now have some experience with the emotional and sexual complex of problems women with this background suffer, and I believe myself to be good at dealing with this, as well as with giving an introduction to what lesbian sex can be like.
For threesomes, I don’t accept bookings done by a man with intentions to introduce me as a surprise to his girlfriend or wife. Nor do I agree on pretending to be a “normal” girl found on a regular dating site. I demand that also the female partner is to know that I’m a professional escort girl, and that she really is genuinely interested in seeing me.
My rates for couples are the same as for ordinary date with 1 person.
Category 2
2:1) Can you recommend some good hotels in Copenhagen?
Raidisson Royal – A really good, price worthy and centrally located hotel, in Scandinavian design. Their both restaurants are also of good quality, especially Alberto K on their twentieth floor.
Marriott – Also a centrally located hotel, with real good standard on their rooms, in particularly their suites are spacey and well equipped. It might be the most luxury of the hotels in Copenhagen nowadays, but their colourful design isn’t very Scandinavian to the look. They have a nice restaurant with a nice view over water.
http://hotelsktpetri.dk – A very elegant and fashionable hotel in modern Scandinavian design, their rooms are pretty expensive in relation to their size though, and their room service isn’t the best.
http://admiralhotel.dk – A charming hotel, a bit older and not all newly renovated, but with a nice harbour location, and with the really good restaurant Salt.
http://dangleterre.dk – The most well-known and nominated hotel in Copenhagen, in a beautiful old building, close to the old central market place of Copenhagen. Nowadays it’s very worn down though, and heavily overprized in relation to what they do offer. They sell their name, and some old charm, but not much of quality anymore.
http://front.dk – A very hip and newly renovated hotel, perhaps a bit too “funky” for more traditional gentlemen, though. Pretty expensive seen to the sizes of their rooms.
http://thesquare.dk – A very central and price worth hotel with nice rooms.
http://scandic-hotels.com/sydhavnen – A bit outside of the central city, but with nice and fresh rooms, especially their suites on the fifth floor are very price worthy, in relation to their size and furnishing.
Hilton Kastrup – Comfortable close to the airport, a bit expensive, seen to the size and equipment of their rooms. Their restaurant is very “non telling”.
http://avenuehotel.dk – A tiny independent hotel, with fresh rooms to good prices, relatively centrally located.
http://guldsmedenhotel.dk – 3 tiny independent hotels, with tastefully furnished rooms to nice prices, good home made food, nice service and rather central locations.
http://noma.dk – One of the most exclusive gourmet restaurants in Copenhagen, they work on bringing out the best of the Scandinavian cuisine combined with international influences.
http://www.mr-restaurant.com – And innovative and modern gourmet restaurant, with nice quality foods and nice atmosphere.
http://restaurantkoriander.dk - An alternative gourmet restaurant, working on combining the French and Indian kitchen.
http://www.restaurantumami.dk - Nice Japanese/French restaurant.
http://www.sorteravn.dk - A really good French/Danish restaurant centrally in old Nyhavn.
http://ilgrappoloblu.com - A beautiful Italian restaurant with really good food, cozy and warm atmosphere with excellent service.
http://latombola.dk - A nice Italian restaurant, with real good food to a nice price.
http://leonore-christine.dk - A nice restaurant with Danish/French cuisine, and very cozy atmosphere.
http://www.sanshin-sushi.com - Really high quality sushi in a tiny little place.
http://www.sushitarian.dk - Centrally located sushi restaurant of good standard.
2:3) Can you recommend other escorts in Copenhagen?
http://copenhagen-sex-escort.com - Camilla Guldborg, a nice and very well educated girl, not having that much time for her escorting nowadays, though.
http://www.karoline-escort.com - An intelligent and friendly lady, who really brings her heart along in her profession.
http://www.foxyronja.dk - A voluptuous Woman with a lot of humour, and a huge and genuine appetite for sex.
http://gabriellamolina.com - A hot sex-bomb with strong charisma.
http://ellen-companion.com - A new girl on the scene, who I don’t really know much about yet, but I think she is good.
For indoor so called “massage clinics”, other independent escorts and escort agencies of Copenhagen, these listings are very useful, http://massagelisten.dk, http://side6.dk/massage and http://cad.cwt.dk.
2:4) Can you recommend other escorts in Sweden?
http://mimmisthlm.com - A very nice and well-educated lady in Stockholm who is genuinely interested in her enterprise.
http://fairyescort.com - An intelligent and enthusiastic girl Norrköping/Stockholm.
Good link sites to Sweden is otherwise http://sweskort.thumblogger.com/home/ (for Malmö in particular http://sweskort.thumblogger.com/home/list/malmo/) , as well as http://www.secretaryacademy.net/oppilaat_maa.php?land=SWE and http://stockholmcityescorts.com.
Category 3
3:1) Are your rates negotiable?
No. My rates are based upon the situation of “supply and demand”, they are to create a balance between my supply of availability and the solvent demand there is.
I will never put up rates with margin for bargaining, since that would feel rather tacky. It would also turn out wrong, since the polite and respectful clients (which I do prefer to get) would get scared away. Instead I would get the kind of clients being impolite and pushy (which I don’t like) enough to bargain. In case my business some time in the future would get a long lasting slow period, I would officially put down my rates on this website.
3:2) Do you give discounts to regular clients?
This is a question I usually try to dodge, since it’s difficult to answer before I’ve met the person in question, and know if I would like to see him several times to reduced rates, instead of taking on new clients to full rates.
In the case I take on new regulars, I’m searching for persons I really like and get an unusually good contact with. Preferably thinkers with a bit humour, who also like to court and spoil me a bit. It’s also important that we make a nice sexual match, that we are into the same stuff with lot of “touch and tenderness” in bed. That we dine together and spend a full evening of together is mandatory – I’m not interested in giving discounts for dates only consisting of some hours of sex.
I don’t offer any discount rates to my regular clients for full overnights, or for travel escorting. Then it comes to overnights; because these are the most energy consuming of my dates. They disturb my sleep, take up the whole next morning, and make me tired the rest of the day. Something which causes disarray in my other activities, and thereby also considerably reduces my availability for other dates in the period.
Then it comes to travels; I already have special arrangements with two of my closest regulars for winter vacations, and do otherwise cover my availability for travels very well with clients willing to pay the normal rates.
Of course you cannot receive a discount on our first date, no matter if you are considering, or seriously planning, to see me regularly. And I can also not by any means guarantee that I’m going to want to see you again after the first date. For a regular arrangement, there needs to be a very well working mutual chemistry between us.
3:3) If you now really like what you do - why don’t you date for free, or why aren’t your rates less expensive?
I easily get attracted to people I meet, and there is an abundance of interesting and exciting persons in this world – more than I ever will have time to acquaintance. Why then not set their wealth as my criteria of selection?
Seeing wealthy persons also means that I get to date successful individuals, who have some class and style, as well as good intellects, interesting backgrounds and life-stories. Qualities I find very attractive in a partner – much more important than physique or age.
There are few girls like me around, so I’m having a unique situation, there I can choose and decline who I want to have as partners, and also make money out of my amorous adventures. In the same fashion like professional athletes, artists and musicians don’t give off their work to loosing prices, or work for free, I don’t see a reason not to charge money for what I do, even if it’s a passion of mine.
3:4) Can I see you for a lunch or a cup of coffee, before I decide whether I want to hire you or not?
I don’t have the time and energy for trying to “sell myself” or convince a client, not knowing what he wants, to hire me. It’s “take it or leave it” that applies here. If you are in doubt about if you are going to like me, then please don’t consider hiring me. Find another escort girl better fitting your tastes, or just refrain from using this kind of service.
3:5) Why don’t you offer any 1-hour service, can’t you do an exception just for me here?
Partly, I don’t think short dates with hurried sex to be very stimulating. I need to get my brain a bit stimulated too, if I am going to really get turned on. Partly, I don’t have time or energy to go out on dates more than a few evenings per week. In case I offered short dates, I would either have to charge insanely high rates for them (seen to the market situation in Copenhagen), or I would get far too many jobs.
3:6) If I would grow tired of you after only 1 hour, do I still have to pay for your minimum of 2 hours?
Yes. Either you will have to realize that you don’t want to have a date with me within 15 minutes after you see me (then you can decline the date, and I wont charge you anything, provided we haven’t started to have sex), or you will have to be foreseeing enough, concerning what your needs and wants are, to hire another escort than me.
3:7) Why can’t I get to know your real identity unless you know me very well?
Because there are many individuals that have a very strange way of relating to girls like me. Many men have a lot of difficult emotions concerning their sexuality, and some of them project their hang-ups and neuroses on prostitutes. This can also concern well educated and, superficially seen, well ordered men. I’m afraid that some emotionally unbalanced client might fall in love with me, and start to stalk and harass me.
There are many horror stories going around in this business, so I make sure to always be careful, so I can sleep calmly during the nights, and not need to watch over my shoulder then I leave my home. Hence I’m very careful with handing out my civilian identity, and it’s necessary that we have met several times, over a period of time, and that I’m very confident about that you are a sensible and emotionally stable person, before I consider doing so.
This also means that I must be careful with writing receipts on my services, since I as a civilian person can be traced through to the tax registration number on my business. This is because the Scandinavian countries have their particular Freedom of Information legislation, also meaning that the tax offices have public records.
3:8) Why can’t I see you in your home?
For the same safety reasons as in the question above. And because I’m still living in a tiny student apartment, which doesn’t really look that glamorous.
3:9) Why don’t you offer unprotected fellatio?
Because many std:s can also can transmit orally. In the case with fellatio, bacteria and virus in pre-ejaculatory fluids, as well as in semen, can infest the mucous membranes in the throat. Even if this occurs more rarely than infections caused by unprotected vaginal or anal sex, it’s not an all-negligible risk. Especially not for the frequently occurring diseases chlamydia and gonorrhea. The risk for HIV infection cannot be completely excluded either, even if it’s considered extremely unlikely for HIV to transfer in this fashion.
Even if diseases like chlamydia and gonorrhea easily can be cured with penicillin, I would find it utterly disgusting to get infected in the first place. I wouldn’t be able to relax and fully enjoy to have sex, in case I all the time had to worry about that I was taking actual risks for contracting these diseases, or eventually, even something as fatal as HIV.
I am to my nature more the careful kind of person. I always wear a helmet then I go on a bicycle, I buy ecological groceries – and of course I make sure that I manage my escort service during the safest possible conditions. I prioritize my safety, and my daily well-being, much more than my money making.
To avoid risk sex (and thereby also the kind of clients that are into seeing escorts which do engage in this) is then as well a very natural thing for me to do.
3:10) I would like you to travel to me, but how can I trust you to really show up, in case I pay you in advance?
If you don’t think this website gives confidence enough, I don’t think any further insurances from my part, about me being an honest and trustworthy person, will help much. But there are a lot of scam escorts out there, so I understand that many men feel unsafe with doing advance payments.
The easiest solution is that you yourself travel to Copenhagen, and see me there, instead of having me travelling to you. As a travel escort I anyway don’t offer short dates, and I am more expensive than if you see me in Copenhagen. Why then not visit Copenhagen and do some touristing, then you have the opportunity? Then you pay me when we meet, and you don’t need to worry about being scammed.
Most scam escorts have got flashy, but not very detailed, websites, and they use to disappear after some months (to then appear under a new name and with new pictures). They usually have little text, several programming bugs, and not very well built up links on their sites, – instead they advertise by temporary adds in various places. For the ones being a bit experienced in this field, scam escorts are rather easy to spot, and it’s pretty obvious that I’m sincere and genuine in what I do.
It also wouldn’t pay off well for me to scam potential clients, I would only gain a bad reputation from that, which would make me loose earnings in the future. Seen to how much I make in a total, 30% of my travel rates really isn’t that much money either.
3:11) Can I take photos of you, or film you, during our date? Or can I buy used underwear and sex toys from you?
No, the majority of persons having this visual interest, have a pornographically coloured sexuality, there the whole thing is about body parts, dirty words and various other fixations. Instead of their sexuality being about life affirmative joy, and human encounters. The whole idea about the explicit pornographic usually stems from a tension around sexuality as something forbidden and bad. According to me, this is something that takes energy instead of giving it.
By this not said that I look down on this kind of sexuality, – then I myself was younger I had more of an approach to sexuality as something shameful, forbidden, dirty and a trespassing of limits. I then found pornography, and the visual fixation of the explicitly sexual, as very arousing.
But as I have developed and matured sexually, I have completely lost all sexual shame, and the tension it could generate. Sex has instead turned into something natural and relaxed, with tenderness, joy of life, and personal intimacy. An approach that gives me much more on all levels.
So pornography has completely lost it’s charm to me, and I cannot connect to, or get aroused by, persons being within this mental sphere. Hence I don’t want to work with clients that wish to film me or take pictures of me.
Then it comes to selling underwear and sex toys; I don’t have the time and energy to administrate this, and many people emailing about it are not serious about it, but only time wasters looking for some attention.
3:12) Have you really written all the texts on this website by yourself?
I have written the Swedish and English texts all by myself, but have had help of a girlfriend to write the Danish version, since my Danish is heavy influenced by Swedish and far from perfect.
I’m linguistically gifted due to having been something of a bookworm, I’ve always been reading a lot, since my early teens also fantasy and sci-fi in English. During my studies at the university of Lund, I’ve also had plenty of course literature in English, which further has honed my skills in the language. My English pronunciation is however not as good as my writing skills, since I never really actively did get to speak the language, until I started up escorting on this higher level.
3:13) Do you really look like you do on your pictures?
Yes. I have intentionally put up many pictures on my website, in order for them to together create a genuine representation of what I do look like.
Thanks to a healthy life style, and good genes, I still look very young, especially on some still pictures. But my demeanour, my body language and my way of talking, absolutely makes sure that I cannot be mistaken for a teenager anymore.
Of course I have chosen the best pictures from the sessions, as well as I have worked with a professional photographer, who has been using professional lights, helped me to do nice posing, and strived for finding the best angles to shoot me from.
If something is deceiving, it is that most pictures are taken from a frog perspective in order to give a nice lift to all shadows. This makes me look taller than I really am on most pictures (me being 160 cm / 5’3” inches in reality), as well as it makes my throat disappear a bit (since I’m looking down on the photographer). My legs also look longer than they are on some pictures, and my feet look bigger (real shoe size being 36-37 / 4-5), because my feet are close to the camera.
The fact that I push the chest forward and pull my shoulders up and back on most pictures, also give my breasts a nice lift, compared to if I’m sitting relaxed and slightly slumped forward. I’m naturally having a bit of a swayed back and slim waist, but my photographer has on most pictures asked me to sway out a bit extra and pull in my stomach. I’m very pale, as some of the pictures do show, other pictures has through camera adjustments and lightning been given a bit more colour and contrasts, than I see myself then I look in the mirror. My photographer has also done some routine adjustments of light, saturation, contrasts and colour on the pictures.
3:14) Are you really independent? What are your affiliates for doing this website and manage your enterprising?
Yes, I am an independent entrepreneur. The persons I have hired for pictures and the website work have been paid for their work, but have nothing further to do with my enterprising. In accordance with Danish law, it’s also perfectly legal to sell services to me, just like to any other entrepreneur.
A professional graphic artist, who wishes to remain anonymous, made my graphics, after some sketches I did myself in Photoshop. The programming and hosting are taken cared off by http://www.j-webdesigns.com, that also have done parts of my link exchange, and some work with placing adverts and profiles for me on various other websites. Another escort girl and friend of mine, http://kiti.dk (for the time being not active with her own escorting), are nowadays doing the continuous work with link exchange, advertising profiles and google optimization, for a symbolic compensation.
A Danish student girl, and friend to me, have helped me out with the Danish version of my texts on this website. I also pay an auditor (who as well prefer to be anonymous) for solving all difficulties and problems with my Danish business registration, and for doing my yearly declaration. And my present photographer is http://allegra.dk .
If there is any pimp in the picture, it’s the Danish tax office (http://skat.dk), which snatches a juicy piece of the cake.
3:15) Do you give interviews to journalists, researchers, students or curious civilan persons?
No, not any more. I get many emails with such requests (averagely 2 per month), and I have by now started to think that the societal interest for girls in my business is out rightly disturbed. (It seems like the people wanting to do research on escorts outnumber the actual escorts here in Scandinavia.)
Most journalists, researchers and students are also fixed into such a discursively angled pre-understanding for what my enterprise is supposed to be about, that it simply is to throw “pearls before swine” to give them any attention and energy. And then it comes to curious civilians; I think it is insulting to be requested to explain and define myself in front of people I don’t have any kind of relation to.
3:16) Can one just become a friend of yours?
If you are a professional escort (no male wanna-be gigolos please) with a well-made website of your own, I’ll be happy to have a mail communication with you, to the extent I have got time for it. But common people just thinking me cool, or dreaming about getting me as a girlfriend in the long run, – no thanks.
Even if I per se don’t look down on lonely, thinking outsiders having problems with otherwise finding friends in their lives, (which seems to be the types writing me these emails with offers of friendship) I suspect that they most probably are too socially inapt, inactive and depressed to be anything else than a burden to socialize with.
I believe that a healthy friendship only can be created on condition one have a natural and common plane for interaction. For example through shared hobbies or studies, there one actually actively do things together, and have real activities and problem-solving to focus on.
To only “hang out together” for the sake of it, doesn’t give energy or lead anywhere. So to persons considering emailing me about being friends: My advise is that you get yourself some kind of hobby there you get to see people, enter a club for collecting stamps, start with a sport or what ever.